This page has instructions for installing Apache 2.0 and mod_perl 2.0 on Windows, but can also be used for Apache 1.3x and mod_perl 1.2x.
Basically, use the Apache MSI installer from httpd.org, the Perl MSI installer from activestate.com, and mod_perl from this uwinnipeg.ca site. HTML::Embperl 1.x and Embperl 2.x can be retrieved from their as well. Between the Activestate site and this site, you should be able to get all the PPM packages you need.
To use these ppm packages,
Start->run->ppm3 install Bundle::CPAN File::Spec CGI MIME-tools-BETA MD5 rep add "theoryx" http://theoryx5.uwinnipeg.ca/ppmpackages/ # set the current repository... set rep 3 install mod_perl install Apache::SessionX Apache::Session Apache::DBI DBI
To compile Apache2 & mod_perl2 on Windows using VC6++ read: http://perl.apache.org/docs/2.0/os/win32/install.html
Doesn't want to link for me though.